How do others see us? Not as we see ourselves, but more differently!!!
We can wish they were more attuned to our thinking, but that is not the case. Like looking in a mirror, but sometimes the mirror lies to us.
Could we change, should we change, or are we satisfied with our self-deluded thoughts and delusions about ourselves?
An honest dialogue with others would help, but we would have to be honest, which is hard to do sometimes.
Therefore, we will continue to do as we do and say things, we think are right, but we will be wrong about our image with others.
So be it!!!!